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Find your VOICE

ACA is all about finding our voice. This acronym can help us with that:

Validate
Our
Inner
Child's
Experience

- Jackie N

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  1. AnonymousSeptember 6, 2022 at 10:19 AM

    Such an important acronym! Right now, I'm working on my Loss Inventory, drescribed in the Loving Parent Workbook. It's a very difficult inventory process, but seems to be crucial to naming and claiming all my losses to be sure I'm working through them all. This taks may take the rest of my life. But each day I get past my Losses, is a day I get to experience being more fully human, more fully alive, and more fully in conscious contact with my HP and fellow man!

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